lMiss You Abe

Si Kenit Isyraf bermain dengan laptop saya 2 hari lepas, mahu tengok gambar-gambar lama katanya. Saya biarkan saja Isyraf bersendirian. Selepas 15 minit saya menjenguk ke bilik semula dan kelihatan Isyraf tak henti-henti mengesat hujung matanya dengan tshirt yang dipakainya. Saya terus peluk Isyraf dari belakang.

“Kami doakan Abah cepat sembuh. Kami nak ibu happy-happy dengan Abah naik moto macam dalam gambaq ni semula. Kesian ibu nak rehat pun tak dan. ”

Hai la anak. Pagi-pagi dah potong bawang. Ibu is so happy to have you all in my unique journey, it's tough but worth it. Allah must have something special for us in the end.

So friends, bab anak-anak ni...be with them, do not ignore them and under estimate them bahawa mereka tak tahu apa-apa. Have them together in our journey. InshaAllah kita tidak akan keseorangan menongkah arus. Anak kecil telus, ikhlas dan tidak mengguris kerana mereka tidak memikirkan apa-apa kepentingan diri dalam setiap tutur kata serta perbuatan.

Macam tulah.

No Monday blues ok. Rock it!

Mek Zurots
Gambaq lama sebelum jadi saiz pintu macam la ni 😁

#mekzurots
#caf
#kenit

Bahagia = Cukup + Redho

Assalamualaikum dan Salam Sejahtera.

Saya ucapkan jutaan terima kasih kepada semua yang bertanya khabar dan datang melawat anakanda Irsyad.
Ada yang risau kerana saya tidak update apa-apa.
Terima kasih, terharu saya.
Saya mohon maaf kerana rutin yang agak padat.

Alhamdulillah.
Terima kasih tidak terhingga di atas doa semua rakan-rakan.
Irsyad kini beransur pulih dan sudah berada di Hospital Machang.
Semalam dipindahkan dari hospital Kuala Krai yang sangat sibuk operasinya.
Kandungan protein di dalam urine Irsyad sudah tiada.
Jika konsisten, InsyaAllah Irsyad boleh keluar dari hospital sehari dua lagi dan perkembangan kesihatan Irsyad perlu dimonitor secara terperinci selama 6 bulan seperti mengambil bacaan sampel urine (kandungan protein) setiap hari serta menjaga pemakanan beliau dengan teliti di rumah.

Setiap hari melihat Irsyad berdoa panjang di atas katil, benar-benar buat hati ibu tersentuh.
Ditambah lagi sebelum tidur akan disentuhnya muka ibu dan berkata, "Kami banyak susahkan ibu." ;(
Allah anak! Asalkan sihat ibu tak ambil kira itu semua.

Saya banyak belajar kali ini tentang ilmu alam.
Pertama kali di hospital kerajaan, MasyaAllah.
Saya kagum sungguh terutamanya di Wad Paediatrik, Hospital Kuala Krai.
Operasinya yang sangat sibuk 24 jam, tanpa henti pesakit keluar masuk dengan keluasan hospital yang terhad para doktor dan nurse sangat cekap, tabah dan berhemah dalam menjalankan tugas.
Ada juga segelintir staf yang agak kurang budi bahasanya, tetapi saya anggap itu ekspresi keletihan dan tidak keterlaluan pun.
Anakanda saya Irfan yang berpeluang menjaga adiknya satu malam juga berkongsi pendapat yang sama.

Para doktor bertungkus lumus siang dan malam seolah-olah tiada keluarga sendiri di rumah mengabdikan diri kepada tugas dengan bersungguh-sungguh.
Adik-adik bakal doktor yang dalam proses housemanship di hospital ini sangat bertuah, dengan volume pesakit yang tingggi dan pendedahan dari pelbagai aspek, anda mendapat bonus dari sudut hands-on.
Adik-adik akan menjadi doktor yang hebat.
Antara yang melekat di hati saya dengan kesungguhan belajar ialah Dr.Rahim.

Dr.Noraini, Pakar Kanak-Kanak (Jusa C) di situ pula, MasyaAllah akhlaknya sangat terpuji dan merendah diri.
Bukan sahaja dengan pesakit tetapi dengan staf beliau, sungguh berhemah.
Terima kasih Doktor dan staff khasnya Dr.Muna.

Pengalaman saya ini sangat jauh berbeza dengan persepsi yang saya ada tentang servis hospital kerajaan.
Tahniah!

Bukan itu sahaja, antara pelajaran lain yang saya belajar ialah tentang bagaimana ringkasnya kehidupan rakyat marhaen dan definisi 'cukup' mereka juga sungguh mudah.
Melihat pasangan suami isteri yang tabah melayan kerenah anak kecil yang sudah berumur lebih satu tahun tetapi hanya terbaring tidak mampu berbuat apa-apa akibat masalah otak, pasangan ini hanya senyum dan melayan anak dengan penuh mesra.

Saya dapat melihat bagaimana pesakit kanak-kanak dan ibubapa mereka yang datang bermalam di wad dan hanya bergantung kepada makanan hospital semata-mata sedangkan anak saya mewah dengan segala jenis biskut, roti, kuih, air, buah-buahan dan macam-macam lagi.
Seronok saya melihat Irsyad sibuk berbagi biskut dengan pesakit lain dan bermain bersama anak-anak pesakit yang lain.
Hubungan sebegini tidak kami alami sebelum ini.

Doakan anakanda Irsyad dapat kembali ke sekolah secepat mungkin ya.
Tahun ini Irsyad bakal mengambil UPSR dan cita-cita Irsyad mahu menguasai Al-Quran.
InsyaAllah.
Amin ya rabbal a'lamin.

Syukur ke hadrat Ilahi dikurniakan rakan-rakan hebat tidak putus mengirim doa dan persekitaran penuh ilmu setiap hari.
Alhamdulillah.

Terima kasih.

#irsyad
#hospitalkualakrai

Merbok...kami datang lagik!

Salam & Good Day Everyone,

As some of us know, my hubby has been diagnosed with mild stroke that affect his speech. He is progressing well so far. And one the best therapy for stroke patient is to keep them happy. Stress is definitely a NO-NO to stroke patient. Terima kasih for all the doa dari rakan bloggers semua. Moga Alllah swt permudahkan urusan kalian.

Back to Merbok. Ya...here we come again kan. Tempat ni dah jadi macam kampung nombor 2. It is really a nice place for family gathering. We did a family gathering recently. My siblings are all kaki pancing including my hubby and little angels. Jangan terkejut all my 4 angels including Isyraf the little 4 years pun ada joran pancing and completed tools for fishing. Kalau abah tanya hadiah exam nak apa?...jawapan dia tak lain tak bukan joran ler. In our recent trip to Langkawi we did borong joran jenama Shimano sorang satu. Good deal jugak kat Langkawi...maybe sebab duty free kot kan.

I did receive emails asking for contact number of Chalet Persatuan Nelayan Merbok. So here you go for those yang belum ada. PakDin Merbok = 0124633526. There are few types of aircond chalet: single house RM150, semi-d house RM100, VIP house RM250. You have options to rent fan room too: price varies from RM40-100. For those who really want to focus on fishing and do not want to rent a room, you can just lepak and enjoy your fishing at open space (pelantar terbuka) with complete facilities provided. There are toilet, bathroom, surau and open kitchen with bbq facilities available. Please look for my archive articles/previous entries on fishing under this label http://comeybelako.blogspot.com/search/label/Memancing. You can view the chalet's photo over there.

So guys, enjoy the photo. Btw, sorry for gambaq yang kelabu asap. I am just so lazy to use camera. My berry curve really not serve a purpose as a blogger...the photo quality is really so so. Time to change kah? hehehe...kukuh jugak alasan ni kan. kan kan kan ;). ***hencik hubby sila ambik perhatians***

Irfan (11years) & Irsyad (7years) ada gaya2 pro gitu ;)

Teka sapa nih?

Penat aih...makan maggi sat. Isyraf nih...(4years)

My youngest brother Kucai...paling expert bab mengail.

Apa nama ikan ni? Sapa tau angkat tangan.

Tak abih gi posing dengan ikan ni. Letih dah dia.

Ikan ketuka. Kucai adalah yang paling expert mancing
among the siblings. Cuba share la sikit baca jampi apa adik oi!

Oh! I love this living toy so much! **lembik ikan ni tara nak buleh bbq**

This is my 4th adik. Namanya Kacang.
**taktau la pasaipa semua lekat nama sayoq**

Irfan pun dapat ikan duri besaq.
**mostly visitors kat situ terkejut tengok skill irfan.
walaupun special fizikal (his hand) but he is a lot better than us.
proud of u irfan!**

Jangan main2 dengan ini princess. Ikan gelama sudah ku bawak naik!
Cayalah MekNa!

Cad pun apa kurangnya kan? Ikan apa ni Cad?

Sekian. Inilah hasil tangkapan satu hari. Dan liao kami buat BBQ + kari.

Kaki pancing wajib pi Merbok ni. Tak pi  rugi!

Best Regards,

ComeyBelako

Salam & Good Day Everyone,

As some of us know, my hubby has been diagnosed with mild stroke that affect his speech. He is progressing well so far. And one the best therapy for stroke patient is to keep them happy. Stress is definitely a NO-NO to stroke patient. Terima kasih for all the doa dari rakan bloggers semua. Moga Alllah swt permudahkan urusan kalian.

Back to Merbok. Ya...here we come again kan. Tempat ni dah jadi macam kampung nombor 2. It is really a nice place for family gathering. We did a family gathering recently. My siblings are all kaki pancing including my hubby and little angels. Jangan terkejut all my 4 angels including Isyraf the little 4 years pun ada joran pancing and completed tools for fishing. Kalau abah tanya hadiah exam nak apa?...jawapan dia tak lain tak bukan joran ler. In our recent trip to Langkawi we did borong joran jenama Shimano sorang satu. Good deal jugak kat Langkawi...maybe sebab duty free kot kan.

I did receive emails asking for contact number of Chalet Persatuan Nelayan Merbok. So here you go for those yang belum ada. PakDin Merbok = 0124633526. There are few types of aircond chalet: single house RM150, semi-d house RM100, VIP house RM250. You have options to rent fan room too: price varies from RM40-100. For those who really want to focus on fishing and do not want to rent a room, you can just lepak and enjoy your fishing at open space (pelantar terbuka) with complete facilities provided. There are toilet, bathroom, surau and open kitchen with bbq facilities available. Please look for my archive articles/previous entries on fishing under this label http://comeybelako.blogspot.com/search/label/Memancing. You can view the chalet's photo over there.

So guys, enjoy the photo. Btw, sorry for gambaq yang kelabu asap. I am just so lazy to use camera. My berry curve really not serve a purpose as a blogger...the photo quality is really so so. Time to change kah? hehehe...kukuh jugak alasan ni kan. kan kan kan ;). ***hencik hubby sila ambik perhatians***

Irfan (11years) & Irsyad (7years) ada gaya2 pro gitu ;)

Teka sapa nih?

Penat aih...makan maggi sat. Isyraf nih...(4years)

My youngest brother Kucai...paling expert bab mengail.

Apa nama ikan ni? Sapa tau angkat tangan.

Tak abih gi posing dengan ikan ni. Letih dah dia.

Ikan ketuka. Kucai adalah yang paling expert mancing
among the siblings. Cuba share la sikit baca jampi apa adik oi!

Oh! I love this living toy so much! **lembik ikan ni tara nak buleh bbq**

This is my 4th adik. Namanya Kacang.
**taktau la pasaipa semua lekat nama sayoq**

Irfan pun dapat ikan duri besaq.
**mostly visitors kat situ terkejut tengok skill irfan.
walaupun special fizikal (his hand) but he is a lot better than us.
proud of u irfan!**

Jangan main2 dengan ini princess. Ikan gelama sudah ku bawak naik!
Cayalah MekNa!

Cad pun apa kurangnya kan? Ikan apa ni Cad?

Sekian. Inilah hasil tangkapan satu hari. Dan liao kami buat BBQ + kari.

Kaki pancing wajib pi Merbok ni. Tak pi  rugi!

Best Regards,

ComeyBelako

Happy Father's Day...A Blessing in Disguise

Salam n good day semua!

I think it is not too late to wish everyone a very Warm happy Father's Day to all daddies out there. There is no supermama without superdady's support.

As usual, we had a simple celebration at my mom's house. We did a 2 in 1 celebration for my dad & my hubby. Our tradition, I will be giving RM20 each to my angels and bring them to gift shops. From there they will buy anything that they wish to for their abah.

Nicely wrapped by autie kedai gift.

Caf gave alarm clock, Cad gave notti mug with monkey on it, 
MekNa gave photo
album and Fan gave mystery ship.

It has been a while n now I am back again. I guess things are a bit on track for me now. Hubby, I can say almost 80% recovered. Frequent body and speech exercise is needed. If  to depend on bi-weekly speech therapy session at hospital...it is insufficient for sure. Home speech therapy is required for those who has stroke attacked on speech portion. Anyway, many thanks to Doctor Wong Yee Choon from Pantai Hospital and Speech Therapist, Mr.Loke Chee Keong from Island Hospital for their excellent support. It has been 4 months now my hubby undergoing treatment with these 2 young experts.

Whatever happened to us, there must be something behind something. A blessing in disguise. We were too busy with daily routine and forget to take care of each other and to take care of ourself. What had happened to hubby taught me a lot. "Health is Wealth". And also we have to be prepared. Apart from company medical coverage, I am lucky because I do take medical insurance for hospital admission and also 36 critical illness coverage. For those who have not, I urge you all to do so if your budget permitted. We dunno what will come along the way.

Oh ya...talking about Health is Wealth...i have also bought treadmill from Takasima. They offered good deal now. You bought simple RM2.7K treadmill you will be given Exercise Bicycle + Portable Back Massager (you can plug in your car too) and Hand Massager. I think it is worth buying at this time with this offer. Ladies out there, if you ever think about to slim down your body, go and get this machine. Exercise. Exercise. Exercise. You just not get a slimmer body but a healthy body. What had happened taught me and family about healthy living. I will make sure I will exercise at least 30 mins on treadmill + 30 sits up + 5 mins cycling. I am still struggling but I will make sure I will keep it up.

Our mini gym ;)

Oh dear...i have so many things to share with you all dear friends about my experience these 4 months facing my husband's stroke. I will and sure will when my time permitted.

Have a great day everyone.